Episode 169

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8th Jul 2025

#169 - In Memory of My Dad - Francis Silvio Ciccarone

Episode 169: In Memory of Francis Silvio Ciccarone -

Life Lessons from The Counselor

💔 A Special Memorial Episode - Host Joe Ciccarone honors his father Francis, who passed away July 3rd, 2025 after a courageous battle with cancer. This deeply personal episode shares the life lessons, wisdom, and legacy of a Department of Defense Hall of Fame engineer who was the family's trusted advisor for 82 years.

Key Timestamps & Moments:

  • [0:00-2:30] 🕊️ Opening tribute and episode purpose
  • [2:30-5:00] 👨‍💼 Francis's career: DOD Hall of Fame, Navy Yard, Pentagon meetings
  • [5:00-8:00] 📝 Joe's Facebook tribute post (full reading)
  • [8:00-12:00] 🤝 "The Consigliere" - Francis as family advisor and counselor
  • [12:00-15:00] 🎤 The eulogy master - 25+ eulogies over 30 years
  • [15:00-18:00] 📸 Magical moment: sharing 20 photos together
  • [18:00-20:00] 🌺 The Hawaiian shirt story and promise
  • [20:00-23:00] 🎓 POWERFUL: Career advice to grandson Luca
  • [23:00-25:00] 🙏 Final reflections and gratitude

Four Pillars of Career Success (Francis's Wisdom):

  1. 🎤 Be a Good Public Speaker - Stand up, motivate people, be better than average
  2. ✍️ Be a Good Writer - Craft emails, memos, connect on the page
  3. 🤝 Be a Good Teammate - Share credit, show up when inconvenient
  4. ⭐ Keep Your Nose Clean - High character attracts good people

Power Quotes:

  • 💪 "Dad, thank you for leading the way"
  • 🎯 "He didn't tell you what you wanted to hear. He told you what you had to hear"
  • ✨ "There's moments of magic hidden in the hours of misery"
  • 🏆 "Good people attract other good people"
  • 🔥 "Life is built, not born"

Key Themes & Takeaways:

  • Legacy Building - How one person's wisdom impacts generations
  • Grief & Growth - Finding meaning in loss and celebrating life
  • Family Values - The importance of being present and honest
  • Career Excellence - Timeless advice for professional success
  • Character Matters - Why integrity defines your reputation
  • Community Support - How people show up during difficult times

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🎧 This episode will resonate with anyone who has lost a parent, seeks career guidance, or wants to understand what it means to live with character and purpose.

🕊️Francis Silvio Ciccarone - March 26, 1943 to July 3, 2025 🕊️

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Joe Ciccarone

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Recovering Blogger.
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