Episode 181

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17th Dec 2025

#181 - Gus "BigDawg" Felder - The Inside Game | From North Philly High School Dropout to the NFL: On Faith, Stoicism & Building Champions 🏈📘🔥

Coach Gus "Big Dog" Felder - "The Inside Game" | From North Philly High School Dropout to the NFL on Faith, Stoicism & Building Champions 🏈🔥

A teacher told him he'd be "dead or in jail." He became an Executive Director of Player Development at the University of Nebraska, earned three degrees from Penn State, and is now building the next generation of champions.

Power Quote:

"The world will judge you by what it sees on the outside — your title, your status, your resume. But real leadership, real strength, real success — that starts on the inside." — Coach Gus Felder

What You'll Learn:

  • How a North Philly kid who dropped out of high school ended up with three Penn State degrees
  • Why the inside game determines how far the outside game can go
  • The power of being present (and why Coach Gus is available until 2am every night)
  • How Marcus Aurelius and stoic philosophy shaped his approach to adversity
  • Why he hires people who are the complete opposite of him
  • The daily habits that keep him sharp: sauna, cold plunge, cigars, Legos, and journaling

Timestamps:

🏈 0:00 - Introduction & Philly connection

🔥 4:30 - From North Philly to Berwick: a whole different world

📚 12:15 - How Marcus Aurelius found a kid from Strawberry Mansion

💪 18:45 - NCAA non-qualifier: proving yourself as a student first

🧠 28:30 - The inside game vs. the outside game

🙏 38:00 - Spiritual devotion & faith in the locker room

👀 45:20 - Being present: listening to understand, not to respond

⚡ 52:40 - NIL, the transfer portal & building loyalty

🔥 62:00 - Forged in the fire: letting adversity transform you

📖 68:30 - Daily habits: sauna, cold plunge, Legos & journaling

❤️ 75:00 - One lesson: Don't let the world make you who it wants you to be

Featured Book: "The Inside Game: Mastering the Mind, Strengthening the Spirit, Leading with Purpose" by Coach Gus Felder

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